A forum for peer support and informal advice on matters related to physical and sexual health. I use an alias & I obviously don't tell anyone where I live. I haven't done it with girls because I'm a bit afraid of it. At the time I didn't think anything of it but now I'm disgusted with myself. I don't know how though and its not as easy as just not going on because somehow I always find myself going back.first, no judgment whatsoever.
see bro, i want to be in a relationship, not just have someone who wants sex at my beckon call.
if there's a way that you can have someone else disable it, it helps because then you don't know how to enable it.
but the long answer is about you and what is giving you the appetite for it.
finding that out and dealing with that will put any behavior that you don't like at rest.
but you're not alone man, so don't for a minute feel like you'd be i know exactly what you mean, and i still have to admit i do it on occasion, even though I'm not really into it.
What helped me realize that I don't need it, is that I'm more than that you know? You deserve more than just cyber sex, and don't forget it.
You deserve happiness, a relationship, even a friendship, but not a cold sex show that leaves you feeling empty and ashamed.
Just remember that there's more to you than what those guys could ever see through a web cam.
You can do it man i know exactly what you mean, and i still have to admit i do it on occasion, even though I'm not really into it.
You can do it I'll join the "no judgement" chorus here.
You're already beating yourself up about this and what you need is support and help, not people telling you you're a bad person for owning up to a behavior you aren't happy with and asking for help.