At least Siobhan Braun gave one single man's point of view in this article compared to her man-hater hit piece "Guys are Gross" last summer. For you old school Reader-readers you will remember the dating section (personals/no photo) that used to exist in the pre -internet age.First of all I want to tell "Carlos" from this article that I coined the term Man Diego when I moved to this town for the first time in the late 80's. I have to agree with him 100% in his analysis of online dating in S. Bad results in my experience with ladies describing themselves with the favorite line "you won't be disappointed" when asking about their looks before meeting. Get the mandatory picture from that possible someone special, holding a drivers licence under their chin for identity/age confirmation before you take it to the next level.Now to sound cutting edge I will have to use my back-up 'Sausage-City'. I recently saw a USAtoday article (link below) that says " a quarter of the group's 37 million members are single".
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It's not just internet dating as any social setting you go to in downtown S. As mentioned in the article, even average looking women tend to have a have over inflated opinion of their looks. My advice to Carlos if he is looking for wife material and wants to have a family is to outsource out of country.
Literally, I have seen 'WALMART WILDEBEESTS' (that's an original folks) strutting around a night club like they are God's gift (supply and demand). Women in Eastern Europe, Philippines , Columbia, Mexico are a different 'species', as they have not been totally manipulated by western culture (see link below).
If that is not a option, then put your or POF profile in cities where you will get responses by attractive women.
If you/she is willing to move, as NYC has 300,000 more single women then men. has the weather, but I find many people here to be unfriendly and uptight as a general rule.
Other cities that tilt in a man's favor ratio and attitude wise are Atlanta, Dallas, and Phoenix. Courteous, friendly people makes for a more pleasant existence, A well written article previously written here gave a excellent analysis on social interaction.
Hooking up is no problem, what with the alarming number of attractive single people, but settling into an actual relationship can be tricky, because of that thing we just mentioned.
But if you came to San Diego looking for love, here's an indispensable guide to understanding how things work here: If you’re on the hunt for someone who’s into catching waves or bending themselves into a pretzel, then you have your pick around here.
However, if you’re not into surfers or yogis your dating pool in SD just got significantly smaller.
Online dating brings singles together who may never otherwise meet.